Men move more freely in the world

by Evelyne Leandro

When we work with the integration of (predominantly) migrant women, we must think not only interculturally but also feministically.

The gender question is central. Those who understand this can address problems more specifically and fairly.

Because men move more freely in the world – especially if they come from countries where machismo is deeply rooted.

Adult men generally don't have to:

- ask for permission when they go out,

- worry when it gets dark,

- fear being the only man in a room full of women,

- fear being harassed when they're out alone,

- expect someone to join them without asking (in the park, in a café, in the library) and want to "get to know them better,"

- constantly smile in a friendly way so as not to appear "weird,"

- consider whether a skirt, dress, or cleavage is "too conspicuous."

So we shouldn't be surprised if women from such countries need time to get used to the fact that the culture works differently here – and that they have more freedom of movement.

But beware: Never completely free!

Because machismo and sexism also exist in Europe – just in a different form. Women who are not considered white, in particular, often experience being viewed, treated, and perceived differently.

While men simply "exist," women must first fight for the right to exist.

"As long as she has to fight to be human, she is incapable of being a creator." — Simone de Beauvoir